How does one succeed in life?
Last Updated: 17.06.2025 02:15
Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.
Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.
Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.
Why do Muslims invade Western society?
Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).
If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.
The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.
What species of fish are horse mackerels?
Opens a business and makes WiFi money.
I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?
Saving $10,000 is a goal.
Why is Reddit blocked by the Indonesian government?
What I need from you?
Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.
First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.
Why is the world male-dominated?
Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.
How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?
Avoids sugar and is very fit.
Procrastinates a lot.
Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.
Ask yourself:
Is it possible for doctors to diagnose prostate cancer just by looking at a patient?
Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.
Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.
Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.
Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.
Does not procrastinate.
“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.
Why won't my mom let me come home if I'm homeless?
Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.
Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.
Losing 20kg is a goal.
Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.
An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):
Do not set goals—set systems.
What is your review of House of the Dragon Season 2 finale, Episode 8?
Big dreamer but only in his mind.
Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.
Living to your full potential is a goal.
Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).
Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.
However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:
Where's the Civil War everyone on the left said would happen?
Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.
Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.
Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.
Why does my private parts itch so much during certain periods?
Hangs out with loser friends.
The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.
PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.
Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.
In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.
Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.
Can one still satisfy the desires of Black women with a more discreet endowment?"?
How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?
That's it for today.
Making more friends is a goal.